As everyone knows , Thanksgiving is a coming . Though it is still a while away , I thought I would present you bloggers with a challenge . The challenge is this : Everyday , write down in your journal / blog / or anything else you may have , or even voice it aloud - what you are thankful for . Just one thing each day . Now because I didn't post this on the first of November , I am going to start off with four things to make those days up .
Day 1 : I am thankful for my family .
Day 2 : I am thankful for my home .
Day 3 : I am thankful for a healthy body .
Day 4 : I am thankful for music .
Now, I don't promise to be any good at posting each day , so if I don't post it , then you'll know that I have written it down in my journal . But I wish you bloggers the best of luck in this challenge . If you eventually can't think of things that you are thankful for , get creative , there is always something , no matter how big or how small .
Let's just start off this post by saying this - You Are Beautiful .
Did you know that woman around the world don't describe themselves as beautiful ? In fact , "only two percent of thousands of women from
10 countries around the world consider themselves beautiful ."
In an article written by Dove , it says this :
"Only five percent feel comfortable describing
themselves as pretty and a mere nine percent feel comfortable
describing themselves as attractive . Additionally , just 13 percent
of women say they are very satisfied with their beauty ; 12 percent
say they are very satisfied with their physical attractiveness ; 17
percent are very satisfied with their facial attractiveness ; and
only 13 percent are very satisfied with their body weight and
shape. In fact , in a society captivated by diet and makeover
programs , a third of women around the world are very or somewhat
dissatisfied with their body weight ."
The article continues :
"Having assessed how women think about as well as evaluate their
own beauty and appearance , the study asks women about social issues
emerging from mass media and pop culture . . . . Across cultures , ages , ethnicities and
race - women make it clear they believe there is a one-dimensional
and narrow , physical definition of beauty . The findings show that
the ideas of beauty and physical attractiveness are largely
synonymous , and although both are highly valued by society , both
are rendered almost impossible to attain .
Respondents said they felt pressure to try and be that "perfect"
picture of beauty :
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- Sixty-three percent strongly agree that women today are
expected to be more attractive than their mother's generation .
- Sixty percent strongly agree that society expects women to
enhance their physical attractiveness .
- Forty-five percent of women feel women who are more beautiful
have greater opportunities in life .
- More than half (59%) strongly agree that physically attractive
women are more valued by men .
The study explores the degree to which mass media has played a
role in portraying and communicating a narrow definition of
beauty :
- More than two-thirds (68%) of women strongly agree that "the
media and advertising set an unrealistic standard of beauty that
most women can't ever achieve ."
- Well over half of all women (57%) strongly agree that "the
attributes of female beauty have become very narrowly defined in
today's world ."
The media and pop culture affect the way we think of ourselves more than we think . The media portrays this image of what a beautiful woman should look like - when in reality , woman around the world cannot achieve something that isn't real . Take the billboards, ads, and commercials you see on T . V . or on your computer for example , a lot of the woman that are being shown have been seriously altered with photo shop and make-up . For example - take a look at the link below of a video that shows the results of what photo shop and make-up can do - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knEIM16NuPg
The article also talks about what woman think that beauty means - the article lists these examples of what woman listed :
- happiness -kindness
-wisdom -dignity -love -authenticity -self-realization
More results of what beauty means from the article are this :
- Seventy-seven percent strongly agree that beauty can be
achieved through attitude , spirit and other attributes that have
nothing to do with physical appearance .
- Eighty-nine percent strongly agree that a woman can be
beautiful at any age .
- Eighty-five percent state every woman has something about her
that is beautiful .
"[Now] the possibilities for the beautiful to be known, found
and represented have been infinitely extended and the ways in which
female beauty can be defined have been profoundly deepened ."
So there you have it . For those of you who don't feel beautiful - think again . You are . Beauty doesn't depend on looks - but the attitude that you present and the how you decide to portray yourself . Be your own kind of beautiful .
Jodi Marie Robinson said the following : "True beauty is felt more than it is seen ." Sophie Loren said this : Beauty is how you feel inside , and it reflects in your eyes . It is not something physical .
So let me say it one more time . You are beautiful . Please believe it . Remind yourself that you are when you look in the mirror .
Anyways . This was kind of a long post , and I feel like I am kind of just rambling on . So if you want to read more please read this article entitled "True Beauty" by Elder Lynn G . Robbins (Link below) . It is a fabulous article ! And for more on the Dove article , you can read more at the link below .
Thanks for reading bloggers . Have a wonderful day <3
E . B . Doodles are something that I will post on and off - just like the E . B. Photography . Unfortunately my computer is having some technical difficulties and won't let me upload my pictures from my camera . SO - I've decided to have E . B . Doodles until I can figure out how to get pictures on my computer . Sorry about the poor quality of my phone's picture !